Where can you find solitude?

"The Box Man" gives us examples of where to find peace and solitude, and it's within ourselves but how many of us actually find it in ourselves? Having material things, in our society now a days, suggests happiness and i believe that it is a false suggestion. Many people that have less and value the real things that should be valued, are most likely to have the self satisfaction others lack. Many of us think to be happy we have to fit in and have what everyone else has. I don't know why many of us live by this concept because its like saying i rather be sad and rich than happy and poor. In the end when all the material things are gone, those rich people will definaltly be in for a surprise. We should all strive to live like the box man and value the things that really matter.